Monday, February 27, 2012

It's official

We can finally say we are a family of 6!!!! Zhao En Hao is officially

 

Caleb Aaron Hao Prevost

Today started off at 9am meeting Cindy and heading back to the Civil Affairs office where we needed to do a red inked finger print over all our signatures and one right next to a red hand print of Caleb's. I wish we got to keep it but at least we got pictures. We then were given the document that says he is ours forever. No judge, no court, not even a question asked. We just walked over to a lady who signed it, handed it to us and said congrats and thank you for adopting an orphan. That was it! We then headed to a notary office where we signed a ton of papers. To be honest I don't really know what we all signed, kind of like when you sign for a mortgage. They just kept saying....sign here and here ...... One I do know was to state the document of adoption we just were handed was true and official.


Then back to the hotel we headed. Caleb was exhausted. He is now napping and Ben went to the gym. Tonight is a free night and we are hoping to find a restaurant to go for dinner. Tomorrow morning we are heading to Swallow's Nest. It was the first foster home Caleb stayed in and it is right here in Zhengzhou.

I'll leave you with some facts about Caleb----

**he can steal anyone's heart

**he loves, loves talking to himself in the mirror....it is so funny

**his skin is crazy dry and he itches it all the time :(

**he loves books

**he will eat everything and anything

**he favors daddy over mommy most times

**his laugh is contagious

**he gets tired super fast with any activities and sleeps SO sound

** he is so funny when he imitates me dancing or I just look that crazy when doing it


Facts about Ch*na

**kids 3 and under wear split pants and just squat in the middle of the sidewalk to do their business.....they don't wear diapers under them. We saw a little girl today it just blows my mind.

** there was a rooster just walking around the sidewalk to town.

** everybody smokes and all the girls wear skinny jeans with boots

** in ZZ motorcycles drive on the sidewalks. Even our guide said it was just plain crazy. Oh also if there isn't a place to park on the street...no problem...just pull up on the sidewalk and park

** no yield signs or stop signs in Ch*na. I tell you every time we get in the van or taxi I say a prayer that we make it safe and don't kill anyone ..lol

** you won't go 30 sec without someone beeping at another car or bike or person walking.

** because there are too many cars in China every day they assign 2 numbers. If your license plate ends in one of those numbers you can not drive it. The day of the week your number is changes every 3 months.

** people just hold their infants/ kids in their lap on motorcycles or in the car. Their are no car seats and no one uses seatbelts or helmets. By law seatbelts only have to be installed in the front seats.

** you don't tip at restaurants and you all pick a dish which is put in the center of the table. Everyone takes some food from each dish.

Thursday we are going to the Henan Museum to learn specifically about his province. We love learning all about Caleb's heritage but at the same time I am ready to be home. Love you Nathan, Katie and Ana!!!

 

10 comments:

  1. Congrats!!!! Family of 6 sounds so good! LOVE LOVE LOVE his sweet little lips!!!

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  2. Yay to your larger family! I am truly happy for you all. :) I like your China facts. Keep them coming!

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  3. wow! Don't know if I could live with some of those facts about this place!!!! Especially the split pants! Kind of like watching out for dog poo??! So happy for you guys. Love that God picked Caleb just for you!!

    The Hemmila's

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  4. I love that he has a contagious laugh...can't wait to hear it!!

    And the photo of the cars parked on the sidewalk looks just like Kiev! We didn't see any kids squatting on the sidewalk though...that's just crazy!!!

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  5. I love all of the tid bits about Caleb and China! I'm soaking it all in! And you're right, I think Asian skin in general can be very dry. We rubbed Joel down with lotion every night in Thailand. He loved it and it promotes bonding...I bet you already knew that but still, it worked great for him! :)

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  6. Congratulations! He is adorable and I loved the picture from your previous post of him and Ben sleeping on the bed. So precious!

    For the dry skin be sure to buy some Cetaphil cream (not lotion). It comes in a big tub and works wonders. They also make a cleansing wash which would be better for bath time.

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  7. Congrats!!! Love all the fun facts!! and LOVE that you are a family of SIX!!! How exciting!!! He is just precious!!

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  8. I reposted some pictures, I hope you don't mind. If that's not ok, let me know and I can take them down. :)

    http://matthew18vs14.blogspot.com/2012/02/exciting-stuff.html

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  9. Congrats Juli and Ben! I'm glad you're settling in well with Caleb! Can't wait to meet him!
    ~Shannon

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  10. CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! Love the red fingerprints. :-)

    It is still so wild to me how different the process is from UA. No wonder families that adopted from China first have such a hard time adopting from UA then. I LOVE that he was very nearly yours before you even got there. YAY!!!

    Can't wait to see you ALL TOGETHER!!! We're praying for you all every night as a family. :-)

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